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For those mature people...

Which are the main features of a good woman, of the signs to recognize her.

  Even, what are the better details to make happy a woman.....

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Quote from: MexCougar
Which are the main features of a good woman, of the signs to recognize her.

  Even, what are the better details to make happy a woman.....


Very important: make sure you find someone who likes to spend their spare time the same way you do, who likes to do the same type of recreational activities, or at least does something that you could take an interest to or vice versa.
"lol.. because not too many people care for that style of car"
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I have to second that one. Both my fiance and I play lots of video games.. especially online ones.. and it always gives us something to talk about. We've been together over two years now, which has lasted longer than any of my other decent relationships. Also helps that she likes all four cars out in the yard. :D

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mostly a common interest

my current girlfriend knows nothing about cars, but she loves my cars, and has enough interest in them to try to learn, and she is into dance, mostly ballet, and while i dont take very much interest in it, i support her 100%, because its a passion of hers

her an i have similar backrounds, which also helps, while ive gone through some harder things than she has, she has been through a lot that is similar, so we understand eachother very well

all-in-all, she is a keeper
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Pay all the bills first and never buy anything without telling the other first.  Even low cost things.  If she makes as much as you do this is a plus, but don't complain if she makes more.

Find someone who likes you as much as you like her.

Listen to her once and a while even though you don't know what the hell she talking about.  Pertend you do.

Don't worry about the little things in life, like house work and cooking.

Never lie to, cheat on, or put down one another.

I'm going on 22 years and I have not regretted it once.

TED

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hugs and listening. that is all you ever need. (and don't fight over money, it's too stupid a thing to argue over)

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You've made the mistake of assuming even mature men have figured out women. Not even close, buster. Every one of them is different, but they all love to pull the rug out from beneath you, the second you think you've got them pegged. ;)

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Quote from: oldraven
You've made the mistake of assuming even mature men have figured out women. Not even close, buster. Every one of them is different, but they all love to pull the rug out from beneath you, the second you think you've got them pegged. ;)



What he said....  :bowdown:

Not to discourage you but they get more complicated as they get older. They also get less willing to put up with our bs.

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Don't marry a Hispanic girl.  Oh wait I guess it's probably hard for you to find one that isn't!  LOL

I married a girl from Ecuador and the cultural differences have been the biggest hurdle to overcome.  Sometimes we just don't see eye-to-eye on things because we just aren't on the same wavelength.  Totally different thought patterns about a lot of stuff.  For example, she sees most American girls as wild and crazy whereas I see her as too quiet and reserved sometimes.  Apparently in Ecuador it's rare for women to think independently or move out on their own before they get married.

Anyway the main thing to remember is to have patience and pick your battles.  Because it's not worth the trouble to argue over the thermostat.  Just try to find a girl that likes to do the same things you like to do, or is at least willing to let you do them without giving you any grief about it.
-Jim
1987 Cougar LS 5.0

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Amen.
-Jim
1987 Cougar LS 5.0

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First of all you have to have some common interests that both of you enjoy, for me music was a big one bacause there is ALWAYS music playing in my house and luckily my girlfriend and I have pretty similar music interests, but theyre different enough to kepp things interesting. And of course she's gotta like the car, if my cars not good enough for her than neither am I :p and as said before dont let the litle things get to you, if you have a problem talk about it and get it out in the open before it ruins you. that seems to be the biggest problem with relationships

good luck finding anyone who understand women though, I dont even think they could figure themselves out sometimes lol [kiss ass] except for my girl of course [/kiss ass] ;)
1980 birds X 3, 1982 bird, 1984 XR7, 1988 TC

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1) Common interests. Probably most important of all. Don't go into a relationship thinking you can change them over time. They should also not think the same of you. Both people will change over time, but only the things they are willing to change. You don't have to like everything the other does, but be willing to adjust and let her be herself.

2) Respect and trust. If you don't give it, you won't get it.

3) Remind her every day how much she means to you.

I knew my wife 3 months before we were married. Everyone teased us from the beginning asking when the date was. One day I just said September 24th off the top of my head. Never thought about it. Just said it. A few weeks later when we decided to get married, we looked at the calendar and September 24th was a Saturday. Fate??!!
Who knows, but we've been through some very tough times, and they only seem to make us stronger in the end. We've been together 11 years, and I can't imagine being with anyone else.

Good luck...
Dave

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Follow what's been written so far, good advice.  Just watch your ass or you'll get burned.  I got blindsided really badly in my last relationship.  I felt like we were perfect, most everything mentioned here applied.  Were together for 4 years, then she cheated on me out of the blue, probably because she wanted a  ring on her finger that I couldn't afford to put there.  If you're looking for a long-term relationship, you better be ready for commitment.
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Quote from: amooset
Follow what's been written so far, good advice.  Just watch your ass or you'll get burned.  I got blindsided really badly in my last relationship.  I felt like we were perfect, most everything mentioned here applied.  Were together for 4 years, then she cheated on me out of the blue, probably because she wanted a  ring on her finger that I couldn't afford to put there.  If you're looking for a long-term relationship, you better be ready for commitment.


See? Even the seemingly good ones have a grip on the rug. ;)




(not that rug, you dirty minded gutterball) :nono: