Man fools kid
Reply #52 –
Carm,
I looked back and unless he edited it (and it does look familiar) he did say "...the local garage has been preying on him...", and I mean I don't know, it's not my forum to make decisions on thread titles, but is that not a little too much focus on a small detail? LOL. The statement above shows he understood that not necessarily a whole profession is corrupt nor are the ones actually carrying out tasks, globally or locally in this case, but just the result of his neighbor going to this business for service resulted in him getting ripped off.
I don't mean to paint you as easily offended or flying off the handle (though you did say yourself that dealing with people assuming YOU are a dirtbag over many years has left you more likely to get angered by someone ranting about repair shops), but I'd just politely suggest you keep in mind the other perspective.
As recently, formerly an engineering student and now an engineer (well an assisting "technician" as my HR description goes) I don't take offense to things like the thread "Auto engineers, what do they know?" I have seen both when I was in college, and unfortunately at my job now, some examples of the engineer that people hate, and it's understandable where the frustration comes from.
It's no less reason to not be honest yourself if that is who indeed you are. No less reason to not take pride in yourself and believe that what you're doing is right and WORTH doing. People who see the results will praise you. One (or more in this case) bad apple spoils the whole bunch more often than it should, but when it comes to people feeling stolen from, the frequency jumps up. Ignorant as some conversations may be, when I overhear them or are involved in them I keep in mind what the "victim" or the casual observer, well, observes and bear that in mind before I sling an insult or lecture them. Do I HATE and LOATHE blatant stupidity? Yes. The same for ignorance? Not necessarily.
The bottom line is you know zero about something you own as far as a specific failure and repair goes. You trust a repair service to address that issue correctly, safely, and at a fair market value. That trust is betrayed, how do you feel?