a qord of advice from you guys out there

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a qord of advice from you guys out there

December 14, 2004, 10:50:00 PM

i have a question for all you guys out there. If your girlfriend :ies: was being picked on my someone what would you do? stand back and let them keep it up or say something? and also if it happened once before would you say something the second time or let it happen again and not show her anything?
please help me out with your advice.

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Reply #1 – December 14, 2004, 11:05:30 PM

Is she being pickon by another girl or a guy? That would make a world of difference. Im both cases I'm sure I'd say something, but might get a little more angry if it were a another guy.

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Reply #2 – December 14, 2004, 11:17:32 PM

If it was a guy i'd tell him to stop while i fire my fist into his face..

If it was a girl i'd tell them to stop while i fire up some popcorn because I don't want to miss any of the show :D :ies:

Just kidding. I'd probably make sure that person wouldn't make fun of her again.

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Reply #3 – December 14, 2004, 11:27:37 PM

a guy is picking on the girlfriend

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Reply #4 – December 14, 2004, 11:28:57 PM

right in front of the boyfriend and nothing is said even thouh it happened before and he did nothing that time either.

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Reply #5 – December 15, 2004, 12:25:20 AM

the boyfriend is just standing there, while his girlfriend is getting pick on?... whadda brave fella :disappoin

i donno why the "girlfriend" can't stand up for herself or the "boyfriend" to step up to the plate and start getting in his face.
First time- ok let it slide, second time- gets annoying, third time- ladies sharping those nails, guys get your fist warmed up

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Reply #6 – December 15, 2004, 12:45:06 AM

Diana has a good point. Sure, a guy has somewhat of a duty to stand up for his girl. However, a girl should be able to stand up for herself as well and not fall back on the boyfriend to do all her bidding.

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Reply #7 – December 15, 2004, 12:55:29 AM

The guy's a pansy. Even if you get your arse kicked, you've got to stand for her. It's nice to think a girl should stand up for herself, but for the most part, a guy's going to intimidate the hell out of her. Nobody should be taking that shiznit, much less the boyfriend.

Angela doesn't put up with shiznit from anyone, and we had this co-worker, back when we worked in the same office. They would argue on and on. But the moment he showed her disrespect and acted superior to her, those were his last words to either of us. I'm not saying I kicked his arse right there. Nothing came to blows. What, you think I want to lose my job? But I got plenty in his face and gave him an invitation, as well as a warning.

Never had a problem again. The truth is, any dipshiznit who's able to pick on a girl is a pansy himself. It doesn't take balls to pick on someone smaller than you. It just takes a really big ass with a small ego.

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Reply #8 – December 15, 2004, 02:09:47 AM

I'm guessing this is a HS thing? If it was me, and someone was messing with my girl. I'd drill them in the head. If he didnt learn his lesson the first time, He'd get the beating of his life the second time.

You got to look at it this way, Someone disrespects your GF, they are just as much calling you a bitch. And what kind of BF doesn't stand up for the woman he loves? I don't care if the guy is 7 feet tall and built like a tank. You gotta at least try to defend her honer. If not, you look like a puss and she's lible to dump your candy ass. Besides. if you get beat down sticking up for her, let me tell ya, what she'll do for you will make your forget about the pain that was inflicted apon you.

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Reply #9 – December 15, 2004, 09:49:25 AM

Here, here. Wounds heal, but it takes a lot longer to get over being dumped for not standing up for her.

Just don't let him get you in the nose, and make that your first target.

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Reply #10 – December 15, 2004, 11:06:59 AM

and the girlfriend did stand up for herself, she shoved one of the guys that was picking on her into his car.

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Reply #11 – December 15, 2004, 11:08:52 AM

no accuely this is not a high school thing, this happened the other day with all people who are out of highschool

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Reply #12 – December 15, 2004, 03:11:51 PM

:eek: I dont care who or how big the guy is, if he's messing with my gf one of us is gonna get hurt. A girl should be able to stand up for herself but shouldnt have to if her bf is there, unless of course its with another girl which opens another can of worms.....

Plain and simple the guy is a pansy

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Reply #13 – December 15, 2004, 03:21:08 PM

A guy who's 18 or older picking on a girl. That's childish as hell.

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Reply #14 – December 15, 2004, 04:16:41 PM

My ex called me trailer trash infront of my BF in high school, I thought my BF was going to put him in a coma! Hes pretty protective of me. Once his sister called me a slut through a door and he punched a hole through the door right in line with her face.